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Monday, August 30, 2010

LDS in China


A statement from the First Presidency of the Church disclosed today that a senior representative of the People’s Republic of China – the highest ranking representative from Beijing to meet with Church leaders – has visited with the First Presidency.

That meeting in the Church Administration Building in Salt Lake City on Tuesday, August 24, followed meetings in February and May in Beijing, attended by Church apostle Elder Dallin H. Oaks and Elder Donald L. Hallstrom, who are responsible for overseeing the Church in Asia, on assignment from the First Presidency. These meetings were initiated by the Chinese representative.

Elders Oaks and Hallstrom represent two of the most senior councils of the Church -- Elder Oaks, of the Twelve Apostles, and Elder Hallstrom of the Presidency of the Seventy.

“It is important to understand what the term regularizing means, and what it does not mean,” Church spokesman Michael Otterson said. “It does not mean that we anticipate sending missionaries to China. That issue is not even under consideration.

“The Church deeply appreciates the courtesy of the Chinese leadership in opening up a way to better define how the Church and its members can proceed with daily activities, all in harmony with Chinese law.”

Otterson said that many details need to be worked out in further discussions with Chinese officials, but that the pending developments were the result of 30 years of building mutual trust with the Chinese.

“They have become thoroughly familiar with us through numerous contacts, and they have seen how we and our members operate in China. They know that we are people of our word when it comes to respecting Chinese law and cultural expectations,” he said.

The formal, brief statement from the First Presidency said that they and other senior leaders at Church headquarters in Salt Lake City “have had discussions with a senior official of the People’s Republic of China from Beijing, and have established a relationship which we expect will lead to regularizing the activities of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints in China.”

Otterson said that given the importance of understanding and complying with various Chinese laws and the need for ongoing cooperative efforts, the Church does not plan to comment further on the discussions for the time being.

“At the conclusion of the meeting in Salt Lake City, it was agreed that it would be appropriate for this information to be announced publicly,” Otterson said.

The Kyiv Temple Prophecy



"Prophecy Fulfilled and Blessings Bestowed" could be the title of a new chapter in Church history that opens when Elder Boyd K. Packer of the Quorum of the Twelve offered a blessing upon the land of Ukraine and continues through Aug. 29, 2010, with President Thomas S. Monson dedicating the Kyiv Ukraine Temple.
The chapter would cover a span of less than 20 years in which unprecedented events unfolded. Except for the early years of the Restoration, there has been no nation in which a temple has been built within two decades after the Church was introduced.

The Kyiv Temple



President Thomas S. Monson applies first dab of mortar to seal symbolic cornerstone prior to dedicating the Kyiv Ukraine Temple held Sunday morning, Aug. 29. President Dieter F. Uchtdorf, his second counselor, and Sister Harriet Uchtdorf look on.

When its time to go....


REGRETS OF THE DYING
For many years I worked in palliative care. My patients were those who had gone home to die. Some incredibly special times were shared. I was with them for the last three to twelve weeks of their lives.

People grow a lot when they are faced with their own mortality. I learnt never to underestimate someone's capacity for growth. Some changes were phenomenal. Each experienced a variety of emotions, as expected, denial, fear, anger, remorse, more denial and eventually acceptance. Every single patient found their peace before they departed though, every one of them.

When questioned about any regrets they had or anything they would do differently, common themes surfaced again and again. Here are the most common five:

1. I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.

This was the most common regret of all. When people realise that their life is almost over and look back clearly on it, it is easy to see how many dreams have gone unfulfilled. Most people had not honoured even a half of their dreams and had to die knowing that it was due to choices they had made, or not made.

It is very important to try and honour at least some of your dreams along the way. From the moment that you lose your health, it is too late. Health brings a freedom very few realise, until they no longer have it.

2. I wish I didn't work so hard.

This came from every male patient that I nursed. They missed their children's youth and their partner's companionship. Women also spoke of this regret. But as most were from an older generation, many of the female patients had not been breadwinners. All of the men I nursed deeply regretted spending so much of their lives on the treadmill of a work existence.

By simplifying your lifestyle and making conscious choices along the way, it is possible to not need the income that you think you do. And by creating more space in your life, you become happier and more open to new opportunities, ones more suited to your new lifestyle.

3. I wish I'd had the courage to express my feelings.

Many people suppressed their feelings in order to keep peace with others. As a result, they settled for a mediocre existence and never became who they were truly capable of becoming. Many developed illnesses relating to the bitterness and resentment they carried as a result.

We cannot control the reactions of others. However, although people may initially react when you change the way you are by speaking honestly, in the end it raises the relationship to a whole new and healthier level. Either that or it releases the unhealthy relationship from your life. Either way, you win.

4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.

Often they would not truly realise the full benefits of old friends until their dying weeks and it was not always possible to track them down. Many had become so caught up in their own lives that they had let golden friendships slip by over the years. There were many deep regrets about not giving friendships the time and effort that they deserved. Everyone misses their friends when they are dying.

It is common for anyone in a busy lifestyle to let friendships slip. But when you are faced with your approaching death, the physical details of life fall away. People do want to get their financial affairs in order if possible. But it is not money or status that holds the true importance for them. They want to get things in order more for the benefit of those they love. Usually though, they are too ill and weary to ever manage this task. It is all comes down to love and relationships in the end. That is all that remains in the final weeks, love and relationships.

5. I wish that I had let myself be happier.

This is a surprisingly common one. Many did not realise until the end that happiness is a choice. They had stayed stuck in old patterns and habits. The so-called 'comfort' of familiarity overflowed into their emotions, as well as their physical lives. Fear of change had them pretending to others, and to their selves, that they were content. When deep within, they longed to laugh properly and have silliness in their life again.

When you are on your deathbed, what others think of you is a long way from your mind. How wonderful to be able to let go and smile again, long before you are dying.

Life is a choice. It is YOUR life. Choose consciously, choose wisely, choose honestly. Choose happiness.

...and for those of us says I...I wish I had spent more time with those who have gone

Nature Writing



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Walking Home (1)

Sunday, May 9, 2010, 08:18 PM ( 1 view ) - Posted by Administrator
8 May 2010

I live in a neighborhood of walkers--some are out for exercise, some are walking dogs or children, others are just out for a stroll.

I’m walking a lot slower these days, but I’ve found I notice a lot more as I walk. The world looks radically different at different speeds. (I wonder if that is part of Einstein’s theory of relativity.)

I am rereading Edwin Way Teale’s Journey Into Summer and came across this encouraging passage in chapter two, “Walking Down a River.”



“…The way to become acquainted with an area intimately, to appreciate it best, is to walk over it. And the slower the walk the better. For a naturalist, the most productive pace is a snail’s pace. A large part of his walk is often spent standing still. A mile an hour may well be fast enough. For his goal is different from that of the pedestrian. It is not how far he goes that counts; it is not how fast he goes; it is how much he sees.”

The spirit of Teale’s passage is so antithetical to the “spirit of the outdoors” portrayed today in the media, even in so-called nature magazines. The emphasis—and it isn’t new, just more dominant—is on extreme activities in the outdoors: how far can a person go in how little time while using how many electronic devices.

Teale goes on to say, “To one observer a thing means so much; to another the same thing means almost nothing. As the poet William Blake wrote in one of his letters: ‘The Tree which moves some to tears of joy is in the Eyes of others only a Green thing that stands in the way.’”

One thing I’ve seen recently, that I would not have seen at a faster pace is walking honeybees. Last week, the last of the lemon flowers dried up and the bees have forsaken it. But before they did, I observed in the late afternoon, on two separate days, honeybees walking “home” from the lemon tree.

I had been watching the bees take off from the tree and head south down a narrow passage between the garage and the house—flying off to their hive somewhere else in the neighborhood. I have a bench that I sit on against the garage wall because it catches the late sun just right and I can feel the sun warm my body and soul once more before it sets. The bees would fly past me and zip up and over the fence.

On two consecutive days, I saw two honeybees walk down the sidewalk in front of me, walking the route that the other bees had flown. As I observed them, I saw that they took the same route: down the sidewalk, on to the garden path, and then right into the grass where they disappeared.

I don’t use any pesticides, but the bees could have been suffering from pesticide poisoning from a neighbor’s tree, or they could have been suffering from mites or some other bee disease. But the interesting thing to me is that they were walking the flying route home. Somehow, they had retained enough memory of the homing communication, that even in the last stage of life, unable to fly, they were moving home.

I can’t imagine that they made it. I feel certain their lives ended somewhere in the grass jungle of my lawn, but they were giving it a try.

Those honey bees may be a good symbol for a lot of us these days. Poisoned by one of the many diseases of modern life, we can no longer fly for home. But retaining some memory of the idea of home, we limp along toward it somewhere, trying, vainly, to find the place called home before we die.

Next year, as I eat the lemons they pollinated, I will remember those bees.


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Nesting Strategies (0)

Friday, April 23, 2010, 08:09 PM ( 1 view ) - Posted by Administrator
23 April 2010

The house sparrows nesting in the neighbor’s tile roof have finished this round of nest building and settled into, quieter, probably incubationary duties. This week, their nest building antics afforded me two new observations about their behavior and raised several questions.

Earlier in the week, a hailstorm rolled up the valley with lightning that knocked out power, pelting rain and hail up to the size of a quarter. A mourning dove had built a nest in the plum tree just outside my kitchen window and chose to ride out the storm in the nest—sitting stoically for hours, pelted and rocked by the elements—even though there was no egg in the nest. That evening she abandoned the nest and did not return the next day.

The next day, a house sparrow couple flew into the plum tree and began to look over the mourning dove nest. They seemed very cautious, not approaching it directly, but hopping from branch to branch, drawing gradually closer. Then, with the male standing guard on a branch about a foot away and above the nest, the female house sparrow hopped into the nest and began rummaging through it—obviously looking for building materials. She found some pine needles to her liking, so she flew off with them, leaving the male in the tree perched on guard.

After a few minutes, the female sparrow returned and rummaged some more, found another item and flew away. This continued for about an hour—the female deconstructing the nest and the male hopping about to various on-guard locations.

It was certainly a very logical action. I have read of birds using other birds’ nests for building materials although I had never seen it with my own eyes.

The question their behavior raises has to do with their consciousness of doing something “wrong.” They obviously knew they were taking something that did not “belong” to them and they knew they could get in trouble for it. From whom? A mourning dove? I don’t think I have ever seen a mourning dove fight a sparrow. I would bet on the sparrow!

Can it be that house sparrows have clear social mores of right and wrong that carry over between species, rules that apply foremost to their own social group? That observation seemed to indicate a general application of a species specific social code.
The second house sparrow observation happened a day after the dismantling of the mourning dove nest. Apparently the major nest construction was finished and now the final touches were being added. Several males and females busied themselves at a patch of brass buttons growing between the bricks on my driveway. This non-native wildflower (cotula australis) has soft fern-like leaves and small, round rayless flowers. The sparrows were breaking off leafy stems with flower heads on them and flying them up into the nesting sites in the tile roof.

That new observation also leads to a question: are the leaves providing something in addition to a soft nesting cushion? Could the plant have a medicinal or pesticide quality? The leaves and flowers do have a strong, chamomile-like scent when crushed.

I may never know, but the birds sure seemed pleased with their find. They are such successful breeders, they must be doing something right.


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Serious Business of Spring (0)

Thursday, April 15, 2010, 11:07 AM - Posted by Administrator
15 April 2010

The serious business of spring is upon us.

The honey bees have found the dwarf Meyer lemon and enthusiastically claimed it as their own yesterday when the noon sun hit it full. I wonder where their nest can be here in the middle of the city.

Thoreau describes in his journal how he and some friends rigged a trap for the honeybees they observed. They put different colored powders on the bee’s back and released them to observe where they went and when they returned, trying to find their hives.

I won’t do that. I assume their hive or nest must be in a cavity in one of the large trees of the neighborhood. Today, I think I will watch them and see which way they fly after leaving the lemon tree.

The yellow-rumped warblers love the bare limbs of the Chinese pistache along the street. They hop along the bare, yellow, lichened limbs off and on all day, pecking at something. Do they eat the lichen? Are there insects, ants, there that they eat?

The house sparrows, usually so social and cooperative, had a big tiff yesterday. One of their group members must have violated some sparrow code. The others drove it to the ground on my driveway, in front of the garage, and with great noise and clamor, proceeded to fuss and peck about at the codebreaker. After a minute, they noisily flew off together, with the offending bird, up to a yew tree by their tile roof nesting sites. There they fussed for a while, gradually quieting themselves. Then they all returned to their sparrow work. I wonder if the offending bird had displayed the appropriate signals of submission, apologized, made restoration, or what.

Is it inappropriate to speak of bird behavior in general? I think it may be. Each bird tribe has its own code of behavior and social structure, but even that is not automatic. Individuals can break the behavioral codes and mores of the tribe. Bird iconoclasts. Bird individualists. Bird mavericks. Bird artists?


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Winter Storm Warning (0)

Wednesday, April 14, 2010, 12:17 PM - Posted by Administrator
12 April 2010

On Saturday, a high white layer of clouds swept over the clear blue sky of Friday, followed by a massive surge of rain and wind that brought one to two feet of snow to the mountains.

Until Saturday, I had heard the hermit thrush beginning to sing and chirp around the garden, but on Saturday he disappeared and I have not heard or seen him since then.

I often wonder how birds ride out storms and weather extremes. I know sometimes they don’t. When I was a boy I witnessed a massive warbler kill along the Florida west coast, a severe cold wave hit during the fall migration and dead warblers lay everywhere on the ground, birds I had never seen before, striking in their exotic colors.

I assume it was time for the hermit thrush to migrate. If the books are correct, he had to migrate up to Canada or the Northwest US.

Also missing after the storm were the orange-crowned warblers who had frequented my hummingbird feeder all winter. They are regulars, too, returning year after year. This storm seemed to be a sign to them also that it was time to move on.

The migrants seem to have inner sense, perhaps keyed to barometric pressure and light, of when it is the specific day to wing their way to their summer home. I’ve read that birds seem to know by barometric pressure when storms are approaching.

Today’s windy blue sky has turned into clouds and thunderstorms. All the birds are hidden away now, except for the mourning doves. The doves are still cooing, walking, and trying to mate. One still sits in her nest in the plum tree, bouncing in the wind.

It would be so helpful to have that inner sense of the birds that know the day to move on. We have community emergency weather alerts broadcast on television and radio. What I need is an internal emergency alert system that will alert me to dangerous conditions in my body and spirit. Perhaps there is one in place already and I need to be more mindful of it.






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An Essential of Naturewriting (0)

Saturday, April 3, 2010, 10:26 AM - Posted by Administrator
3 April 2010

When Thoreau wrote in his journal, he did not just record details and facts—observations. He reflected and connected his observations to life—his inner life and philosophy and the life of other people he observed around him, both specific individuals and humanity in general.

It is precisely that characteristic that distinguishes naturewriting from other genres. Some people disparage naturewriting as not being scientific. It can be profoundly scientific, but it to be naturewriting, it must include that element of synthesis and connection with philosophy of life. Naturewriting can be simple science—basing itself, for example, on the most basic observations of the common life forms found in an urban patio garden—but it must include reflection on how those observations affect the human spirit.

For, after all, in the midst of all, we humans are nature, too, and a true ecology of humanity encompasses our quest for personal meaning in the midst of our fellow creatures. We are nature and we are writing.


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Friday, August 27, 2010

Humanitarian aid


Church Assisting with Aid to Pakistan

LDS Newsroom Back to Headlines
Despite being unpopular with the current US President Obama and the Muslims very popular...we are still giving aid and it is wonderful

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The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is coordinating with other relief agencies to provide aid to flood-ravaged Pakistan. The Church has partnered with International Relief and Development, International Medical Corps, and Saba Aslam Welfare and Trust to locally purchase and distribute immediate relief supplies. Additional supplies from the Humanitarian Center in Salt Lake City will be shipped in the coming weeks in partnership with Islamic Relief USA.
Assessments are continuing to determine further support in the coming weeks.

“Our thoughts and prayers are with the people of Pakistan,” said Bishop H. David Burton, presiding bishop of the Church, who oversees humanitarian efforts. “The generous donations of Church members and others is allowing the Church to provide aid that will relieve the suffering of many people.”

Heavy monsoon rains in Pakistan triggered the worst flooding in 80 years beginning in late July. More than a third of the country has been impacted and over 1,500 people have died and 17 million others have been directly affected. More than 1.2 million homes have been destroyed, leaving an estimated eight million people homeless.

Given that The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints has no official presence in Pakistan, no Church members, missionaries, or meetinghouses are directly impacted by the flooding.

The Church provides relief and development projects for humanitarian purposes in countries all over the world. Projects operate without regard to the nationality or religion of the recipients. Donations, principally from Church members but also from others around the world, are used to make relief projects possible. One hundred percent of the donations given to the Church’s humanitarian services are used for relief efforts. The Church absorbs its own overhead costs.

The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints

Australia's Greatest Peril 1942

1942: Australia's Greatest Peril1942: Australia's Greatest Peril by Bob Wurth




I learned just how close we were to being invaded by the Japanese during World War Two. This well-researched work of Bob Wurth's included the Japanese side of the story, using that nation's official records.



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