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Sunday, July 29, 2012

POEMS

I attended, on the 6th July 2012, what is called a bush  muster and had an intriguing time in an area I had never before walked. Two of my poems were read out, to my delight. I learnt from this experience that the next bush must in early august I can attend and read my own poems out. Comments on my poems were very favourable. this was most encouraging. Danny and his then girlfriend Narelle came with me and they were impressed also. Here are the poems

...and there ws an error in the spacing that wouldn't rectify! Blast! And I got it.
                                                        FIREBALL
The flaming orb slithered through the trees,
Wafted along by the late evening breeze.
Its smoky tail drifted and dissipated,
Leaving the startled watchers agitated.
What is this? From whence did it come?
Why did it appear after the setting sun?
Where was it going? Panic abroad,
Hoping it wasn’t a danger sword.
The cows remained calm as it passed overhead
And the sheep were too busy trying to be fed.
But the watchers when closing the last gate,
Worried if the orb would change their fate.
Visions of burning the waving wheat
Of other weird sightings they might meet.
And mother and son observed this flame,
Of the mysterious orb and wondered its name.
Staring from the gate at the diminishing tail
                                   And marveling that the orb could leave a trail
To be observed by them and give a fright,
On what turned out to be a beautiful night.
Next morning it was they heard the news
Of a fiery fireball landing at Trewes.
It burnt up the haystack and caused a panic        
Rolling towards the house like a thing manic.
Farmer and sons with wet bags were out
To give the fiery thing a dampening clout.
But it petered out before reaching their home,
That was the end of the fiery orb’s roam.
Mother and son learnt that this flamin’ orb
Was caused by intense heat it did absorb,
As space junk that went into a hot spin
When passing through their Earth’s outer rim.
After great excitement it was back to norm
And farming work went ahead true to form.
But mother and son never forgot that night
When a bright fiery orb gave them a fright.
THE GALAH SESSION
                                                There’s a housewife off the beaten track
                                                Who rises before the sun has dawned.
                                                It is summer in the dry outback,
                                                Her work is done in the early morn.

                                                The heatwaves dance in isolation,
                                                Stunted mulga seem upside down.
                                                Her clothing sticks with perspiration,
                                                And its months since she’s been to town.

                                                The garden lies shrivelled and the hens don’t lay,
                                                Bread dough refuses to rise.
                                                Joe’s on ‘the run’, though due yesterday,
                                                He’s out there still with the flies.

                                                But it’s ten o’clock and gossip time,
                                                So she grabs her cuppa quick!
                                                Then races in to the radio room
                                                And tunes in lickety-split.

                                                ‘VKJ Meekatharra calling WIR...over.
                                                VKJ Meekatharra calling WIR!
                                                This station to long wave turn over
                                                For the session of the galah!’

                                                The neighbour a hundred of miles away
                                                Has ‘popped in’ to say hello.
                                                So what if the dog died yesterday,
                                                Her batteries are charged for another go!

                                                ‘It’s rained here, has it rained there?
                                                Is Joe back from the run...over?’
                                                ‘No - it hasn’t rained here and I despair
                                                And Joe is still out in the ‘rover.

                                                Its now the time for swapping troubles
                                                And the tension eases from her shoulders.
                                                A good old chat with laughter that bubbles
                                                Amongst the Spinifex and boulders.








Susan Dayley's published article

This is a beautiful story of real life and its adventures. It is marvelous how Susan's article teaches us what we can do to help build confident kids in a mad world and help others do the same. I've shared it on Facebook with the hope that others might use her ideas for the welfare of their youngsters. No longer young myself, there is a wistful 'wish' that I could have been part of such fun, or for my own sons when growing up, but I was where I was and such a wonderful idea was out of the questions, Mums today, go do for your youngsters! Thank you for this Susan. xx

Increasing Your Child’s Emotional IQ
Many summer camps across the nation have a new focus. They teach children to share equipment, to take leadership roles, and to feel the satisfaction of accomplishment after finishing a challenging obstacle course. Sound like camp as usual? At these camps, children participate in programs where all activities are geared to building their emotional IQ.
They “learn much about themselves, their own strengths and abilities. . . [They] build new life skills for themselves. Meeting these challenges brings true self-esteem, the kind that is earned, not empty words. Talking about self-esteem or trying to bolster it in kids does not work without real challenge in safe and supportive [activities],” wrote Posie Taylor.
However, parents don’t need specialized camp programs to raise children with healthy emotional intelligence. They can call up moms and organize their own day hike, water circus, or bicycle derby. By being part of the activity, they are there to encourage cooperation, taking turns, and helping others. They can use the conflicts that arise as teaching moments.
Child psychologists suggest that a child’s emotional health can greatly determine his academic achievement, success in a future career, the quality of future relationships, and their physical health. A child with a strong emotional intelligence will behave better, strengthen their family ties, and quarrel less with siblings.
Daniel Goleman, discussed a model in his book, Emotional Intelligence, Why It Can Matter More Than IQ, that focuses on competencies and skills. His model outlines four EI constructs.
Goleman’s first construct is self-awareness or emotional perception. This is the ability to read one’s emotions and recognize their impact while using gut feelings to guide decisions. Second, self-management, or using emotions, is the ability to control one’s emotions and impulses and adapt to changing circumstances. Third, social awareness, or understanding emotions, is the ability to sense, understand, and react to others’ emotions while comprehending social networks. Finally, relationship management, or managing emotions, is the ability to inspire, influence, and develop others while managing conflict.
With these in mind, here are four specific ways to help your child improve their EI, supported by Nikki Giant, a freelance educator specializing in writing for schools and parents about bullying and emotional literacy.
  1. Improve emotional vocabulary to help children behave more calmly.
    “Children who can verbally describe their feelings are better equipped to communicate their needs. Researchers at the University of Colorado found that children with a wider emotional vocabulary were more able . . . to develop social and emotional competence for later life. Encourage children to match photographs of people to feelings labels and model using emotional language to help build children’s awareness.”
    As a suggestion, consider getting a poster like this one and covering the labels. Then make strips of paper for the child to place beneath each face.
  2. Work and play together to resolve conflict.
    “A characteristic of emotionally intelligent people is their ability to appropriately resolve conflict and communicate with others, building relationships with ease. Use board games or imaginative play to teach turn-taking skills, sharing and cooperation, rewarding appropriate behavior with a small prize or praise. Communicating expectations, rules and repercussions for breaking rules will establish boundaries that children can adhere to.”
  3. Make a goal chart. A goal chart can help to keep children on track.
    “Teaching children the skill of creating and meeting goals can lead to success with school work, on the sports field and with everyday behavior. Create a goal chart with objectives broken down into simple targets that children can reach. Encourage children to monitor their progress and explore ‘failures’ as learning opportunities to keep children engaged and help them succeed next time.”
  4. Many children’s books address emotional themes.
    “Take advantage of opportunities throughout the day for children to build empathy and discuss feelings, such as after an argument or tantrum. Many children’s books explore themes such as loss, loneliness, jealousy and joy, which can be used as a talking point about their own experiences and to develop empathy for others.”
    One of my favorite books as a child was “Where the Red Fern Grows.” It helped me process my own grief over the loss of my dog.
As parents learn to communicate to their children about their emotions and how to use them productively, they will equip their children with the confidence for building successful relationships with others.
Susan Dayley is the author of various books and blogs regularly at susandayley.wordpress.com
  • Barry Carlson 1 comment collapsed CollapseExpand
    Great information! Makes me even more thankful for my all the things that my wife does for our kids!





Japan volcano very active

its on again, more eruptions from the Japanese volcano

7/27/2012 — VERY LARGE night time eruption of Sakurajima Volcano in Japan



This occurred yesterday evening (july 26 going into july 27 JST)..
This video above, is a follow up eruption from the main caldera this time — truly impressive to see at night… a very long lasting eruption of lava…complete with large volumes of ash, several large static discharge lightning events, and even several flashes of what appears to be some kind of plasma …
The day before.. on July 25, 2012 — we saw the back side of the mountain erupt a VERY sizable plume, and send off massive shockwaves visible for many thousands of feet. It had been several years since the last time the back side of sakurajima showed noticeable activity.


Well lets hope and pray that the people of that small island are prepared if the thing really blows its top and may the Lord bless and protect the Saints that reside there. That's my plea. One can't stop it from going as one can't stop the ebb and flow of the tides, the pull of the moon and the fierce rays of the sun.

Wednesday, July 25, 2012

Volcanic eruption in Japan

7/25/2012 — NEW CALDERA EXPLODES! Large Shock Wave — Sakurajima Volcano in Japan



The eruption no doubt means the movements of the earths plates and the earth itself for this to occur so lets hope and pray that no major eruption or earthquake occurs. It could take months to build up as has this eruptions by all accounts. I just wanted to record it  in my blog and wait to see what happens next


A NEW CALDERA HAS FORMED !!! behind the common erupting caldera.. on the back side of the mountain… a new area has exploded ! It began steaming MONTHS ago.. October 2011.
documented the new steaming which began in Oct. on my blog here:
http://sincedutch.wordpress.com/2011/10/11/volcano-alert-sakurajima-volcano-in-japan-erupts-a-new-caldera-or-massive-vent-on-the-back-side-of-the-mountain/
Sakurajima online cameras have not been posting the past few months..
today.. (july 24, 2012) we see a VERY LARGE blast occur… it is a daytime eruption.. so we’re not going to see too much glowing lava or lightning off of this.. however… the size of the blast shock wave, and the size of the ash plume fallout show the magnitude of this eruption.

Sunday, June 24, 2012

Be Prepared

Disasters are rearing their heads again with quakes north of Japan, tornadoes in America's midwest and a typhoon south of Texas. Am I prepared for such disasters coming my way? I have done my best with food storage, 72 hour kit, some water. Are you prepared wherever you are in the world? Many are advocating this state of preparedeness who are not members of our Church. We of The church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints have been admonished for many years by our Prophets to have home storage, 72 hour kits and other things organised to prepare ourselves, our families and our homes against natural disasters, and possibly man-made disasters also.
This was taken from an article by Dutchinse, reporting on the typhoon Debbie  near Texas:
Have a severe weather plan ready just in case you ever come across a severe weather outbreak in your particular area. shelter, food, water, communications, transportation, survival supplies (the basics)… all are needed for several scenarios.. whether it is severe weather, earthquakes, civil unrest, power outages etc..
Don’t be scared.. be prepared !


Sunday, June 10, 2012

President Monson

He is a wonderful, warm-hearted person, a driving force behind all Latter-day Saionts - and the rest of the world if they would heed his words. We are so blessed to have a living Prophet. Now he turns 85 the wonderful man. I like to post news items of the Prophet, his counselors and the Apostles, and our Temples, on my blog

Beloved Church President's 85th Birthday to be Celebrated With Gala Event

Salt Lake City
“Golden Days: A Celebration of Life” is the theme of the upcoming 85th birthday celebration for President Thomas S. Monson of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints to be held at the Conference Center Friday, 17 August, at 8 p.m.
Beloved Broadway selections and other favorites will be performed by the Mormon Tabernacle Choir, Orchestra at Temple Square and notable guest artists. “We are very pleased that talented solo artists will be joining the choir to honor this great man,” said choir president Mac Christensen. “I happen to know the songs being performed will delight President Monson.” Guest artists will be announced at a later date.
To top it off, former San Francisco 49ers star quarterback and pro football Hall-of-Famer Steve Young will share master of ceremony duties with national network news anchor and author Jane Clayson Johnson.
“President Monson has served other people all of his life. I know that he’s more comfortable in that role than having any accolades focused on him,” said Young. “This celebration is a great way to let him know how much he is loved and appreciated. It’s a privilege to play a small part in that recognition.”
The evening will also take a nostalgic look back at President Monson’s illustrious life from his childhood, marriage and stint in the Navy during World War II to his decades of service. President Monson was called as a bishop of a congregation at age 22 and has served for nearly a half century as a general authority of the Church and ultimately as president.
“So many around the world have been influenced by President Monson’s warmth, compassion and genuine love of people,” said Ms. Johnson. “We celebrate and honor his extraordinary life of service and leadership.”
Ticket and Telecast Information
Free tickets for the celebration are required. Because of high demand for tickets, they will be distributed through a random selection process. Those interested may register on the Internet at www.lds.org/events beginning Saturday, 16 June, at 12:01 a.m. MDT.
The registration period will remain open through Monday, 25 June, at 11:59 p.m. MDT. Registering for tickets may also be done by phone at 801-570-0080 (local) or at 1-866-537-8457 (toll free).
Not all registrations will be selected to receive tickets, and only one registration per household can be accepted. The maximum number of tickets that a household may request is four. Tickets will be mailed to those selected shortly after the registration process closes. Persons not selected to receive tickets will be notified by e-mail.
Standby tickets for those without tickets will not be issued. However, patrons are invited to stand by for last-minute seating. The standby line will form at the north gate on Temple Square prior to the event.
The program will also be shown at various LDS stake centers over the Church satellite system on Saturday, 18 August, with subsequent rebroadcasts to many areas of the world.
In addition, the performance will be rebroadcast in its entirety on BYUtv Saturday, 18 August, at 7 p.m., Sunday, 19 August, at 10 a.m. and Monday, 20 August, at 3 a.m. MDT.
BYUtv International will broadcast the performance in Spanish and Portuguese Saturday, 18 August, at 7 p.m. and Sunday, 19 August, at 8 a.m. and 4:30 p.m. MDT.
KBYU Eleven will air the program on Sunday morning, 19 August, at 7 a.m. MDT.

Calgary Temple

And another Temple is preparing for an open house in October. President Monson has been busy. It is marvelous what he can do considering that he is 85 years young. The Temples will dot the world was once reported by an Apostle and this is certainly moving towards that great day. I love the Temple and rejoice in the work that I can do there for my ancestors and in helping others do their ancestors. It is a great blessing and a privilage

Calgary Alberta Temple Open House, Dedication Dates Announced

Salt Lake City
The First Presidency has announced open house and dedication dates for the Calgary Alberta Temple of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (Mormon). The public is invited to visit the temple during an open house from 29 September through 20 October 2012, excluding Sundays and Saturday, 6 October. Free reservations for the open house can be made through the www.calgarymormontemple.org website in the coming weeks.
The temple will be formally dedicated on Sunday, 28 October 2012, in three sessions. In conjunction with the dedication of the temple, there will also be a cultural celebration featuring music and dance on Saturday, 27 October 2012.
The Calgary Temple will be the third in Alberta; the Cardston Temple opened in 1923 and the Edmonton Temple in 1999. There are currently 137 temples worldwide and 29 announced or under construction.
While the Church’s 18,000-plus meetinghouses are open to all people who wish to attend religious services there, temples are open only to faithful Latter-day Saints after they are formally dedicated. (See a Mormon Newsroom article explaining the difference between the Church’s chapels and temples.)
Latter-day Saint temples differ from the Church’s meetinghouses or chapels where members meet for Sunday worship services. Temples are considered “houses of the Lord” where Christ's teachings are reaffirmed through marriage, baptism and other ordinances that unite families for eternity. In the temple, Church members learn more about the purpose of life and strengthen their commitment to serve Jesus Christ and those around them.
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